Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out

She is the one you're interested in. In fact, she has swept you off your feet. You're all consumed by her thoughts, and you have even discussed her with your male friends. With every passing day, you're getting smitten by her presence. You talk to her often, which means she knows you exist.

Of late, you're brainstorming on some really cute ways to ask her out, but to no avail. Well, friends, all these are symptoms of nervousness and fear of facing embarrassment in case she says a big no.

So, you are not able to ask her out on a date for fear of rejection. But don't lose the battle before giving it a fight! And it's very normal to be nervous and expect an emphatic yes. So, don't lose sleep over it. Calm down and go through this article carefully and jot down main points on how to ask a girl out.

A universal Truth:
Guys, ninety percent of the times, your way of asking her out is indecent or drop dead boring. It's more a matter of your connectivity and the level of comfort the girl shares with you. You at least need to be friends first to ask her out on a date. Even if you're not friends, you may at least know her through some common friends.

In some cases, you may have a subtle hint that she is interested in you. The benefit of doubt in such cases helps a lot. This is a prerequisite to proceed further. Ensure, even if you're not friends, that she knows you exist in her surroundings and are not alien to her.

Build Confidence:
Fortune favors the brave and confidence favors a date! At the end, no matter how much you like her, she will expect you to come to her and speak. So, in essence, build confidence and muster all your courage to prepare yourself to ask her out. Asking a girl out is all about poise and self-confidence.

Don't Ask too Early:
Time is a very crucial factor in asking a girl to go on a date with you. You saw her yesterday and she has been circling around your eyes all day long. All you need now is a chance to ask her out the next time you see her. But, patience is the key! It's always best to give some time to yourself to ponder on how you feel about that girl.

For some time, you should gauze her behavior and nature. Do you like it? Do you think you would enjoy conversation with her? Stated simply, do your likes match? If that isn't the case, then be aware! Going on a first or second date is more profitable if you both have similar interests and likes. Give some time to get to know her.

You'll increase the probability of her saying "yes" if you choose wisely. And a girl will easily decipher your real interest, so be sure that you're really interested in her.

• Melt Her Heart with Chocolates:
  I don't think any girl can resist chocolates, and it may be the case with your girl too (exceptions are always welcome). Send her a box full of chocolates and with a note inside. A few compliments are always appreciated, but ensure that your tone and intensity is friendly. 

Don't overdo compliments and restrict them to a very few lines. And the main point to mention is you've to ask her to come out with you. Don't forget that!

• Express Through Your Talents:
  So you're an ace basketball player of your college team or you play ice hockey for some club. Why not give her some tickets/passes and ask her to come out. Ask her to bring some of her friends along too. She'll love the attention, and meanwhile, you'll be able to impress her.

Another great way to ask a girl out is to pick up your guitar and dedicate a song to her. At the end, ask her to come out. If you've some interest in cooking or love baking cakes (take your mom's help, she won't mind helping you), then bake one for her (try to know her favorite flavor). On the cake, write a line asking her to come out for a dinner or lunch.

• Roses Never Go Out of Style:
  One of the really romantic ways to ask a girl out is by sending her a bouquet of roses. Depending on your level of comfort with the girl, you can send red or yellow roses. She'll love the gesture. Do leave a note inside it asking her to come out.

• Some More Ideas: Some other cute ways to ask a girl out can be to upload a CD of her favorite songs and record your voice at the end asking her to come out with you. Or, you can buy her some stuffed toys with a note stating your desire to take her out on a date.

Creativity springs from your heart and if you're really serious about taking her out, why not come up on your own with some really romantic ways to ask her out. Lastly, don't get embarrassed or heart broken if she initially declines you. Give her some time, and she'll definitely respond once she gets the hint that you're really interested.

With time, she'll understand that you need her and want her. Remember this famous quote by Rudyard Kipling, "A woman's guess is much more accurate than a man's certainty."