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What Women Want in a Man

Marlene Alphonse
The most challenging question of all times is 'What women want in a man?' (Isn't it guys?) Understanding a woman's emotions is not that easy. With a little effort you can unravel the secret that are hidden in a woman's heart.
It is said that a woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets. What goes on in a woman's mind is difficult to figure out. One of the reasons why one may find it tough to understand women is because the way that women process their emotions and thoughts is different from the way men process their emotions.
Even Sigmund Freud, the father of modern psychology, couldn't figure out a woman's thought process. When it comes to choosing a partner, it is very difficult to tell what do women in a man. let us discuss the parameters, which a woman looks out for while choosing her partner.

What do Women Want in a Man

  • A woman will not expect a guy to be wimpy. Confidence is the first thing a woman looks out for in a man. He should not apologize and should be himself.
  • A man having a good sense of humor is well appreciated by a woman. The two most important qualities of attracting a woman are being funny and cocky. A dull, boring man is a strict no-no, but it does not mean that you have to laugh and be funny at all times.
  • Women appreciate men who listen to them. A woman loves sharing her thoughts and problems with the man she is with. A man must be supportive and understanding. Acknowledge her needs and she'll also reciprocate the same way.
  • Women love a man who is romantic and goes that extra mile for her. Make her feel that she is the ultimate one for you.
  • Women adore men who are chivalrous, like being a gentleman and opening doors for her, having a protective arm around her whenever she is in trouble or if there is any danger and helping her with the chores.

What Women Want From Men

  • Women love sensitive men. So, be there for her always, let her know that you care for her. Spend some quality time with her. The fact that you find time out just to be with her, will certainly be appreciated. 
  • Women love surprises and also love to be pampered. Women like men to be generous. Don't be a miser, but don't be a spend thrift either. An occasional gift suddenly out of the blue can win her heart. It's good to go overboard at times, but don't do it often.
  • Women like men to be loyal. Being a man of character will help reap a relationship that is built on trust. Never cheat on your woman and never tell her that you cheated on your ex. This won't make her feel that you are trustworthy or wise.
  • A woman likes to be respected by her man. If she wants to be treated like an equal, then respect her wish. There are times when you'd like to pay for a dinner or a concert, but if she insists on sharing the bill, allow her.

What Women Want in a Guy

  • The first thing what women want in a man physically, is that he should be well built and strong (if you are a hot hunk, then wow!) If you are a guy with good physical traits, get ready to have a fan following.
  • Women never accept clingy guys and who expect to be told everything. Respect her privacy. Let her also enjoy her own space, like a girls night out or going out with her friends.
  • No woman likes a doormat for a boyfriend. Be bold and confident in whatever you do. Women prefer guys who can take their own decisions and not the 'whatever you want' types.
  • Women love creativity and appreciate any extra effort taken for her. You can make her day by just going out of your way to please her with something creative made specially for her.
  • Be a true friend for her and offer her a sense of security by offering physical and emotional support. Let her know that even if she grows old or flabby, you'll always be there for her and that you are reliable.
  • A woman always will like a guy who plans and has ambition. Be sure what you want to do and workout the plan. Asking for her suggestions will make her feel that you also respect her choice. An ambitious man, who knows what he wants exactly, is always respected.
Now that you know what do women want from men, go ahead and woo that girl you've been eying for a long time. Show her that you're all that she expects and sweep her off her feet. She is sure to fall head-over-heels in love with you.